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Incest or NOT?! . . .

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Last night my cousin Ann (not her real name) called me up out of nowhere. She was asking me if I can join her for a couple of beer. I said why not (although I don't have plans going out). When we reached this resto bar at greenbelt she started saying "I am not happy with Jeff (her bf) anymore. He don't satisfy me in bed." to my mind she was so depressed. I told her to take things easy. To my surprise she said "tara check in tayo after"...

Okay this is the weird part. Nag check-in kami... I assumed mag sesex kami eh pero i was too hesitant knowing na pinsan ko siya... Though yun nga legally mag cousins kami pero medyo malayo na yun ang sabi niya.. Second cousin kami because yung dad ko at dad niya first cousin.

To make things weirder she just gave me a blow job... Sobrang nabitin ako I want to go to the home run.. I asked her na ipasok ko na since Naka check in nakami eh might as well Sulitin na namin.. Alam ko kasi that will be the last.. Kasi I myself parang hindi ako Makapaniwala it was happening. Laking gulat ko sabi niya hanggang blow job lang daw kaya niya kasi daw ayaw niya lokohin bf niya. Screw her bf. Bakit siya nag aya mag checkin diba?! And bakit Hindi ba counted yung bj sa panloloko?!

Before I close my confession.. Yung pinsan ko dermatologist siya sa isang sikat na hospital sa Manila. Sobrang hot niya. Lage nga siya pinaguusapan sa hospital dahil mahilig siya mag miniskirt while on duty.

Guys please tell me Hindi incest yung nangyari kagabi? We didn't have sex... She just gave me an oral. That's all.

Thanks in advance.

To mods : Hindi ko alam where to post this thread. Pero i think mas appropriate sa debate section. Wala naman kasi tayo thread for personal fucked up problems / situations like this.

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Parang second degree na yata yan ng pagiging magpinsan, may kakilala ako, magpinsang buo, naikasal pa sila. Magkapatid yung tatay nila. Kaya kahit ganun, pareho pa din ang apelyido nila at hayun, malalaki na din ang mga anak nila. Akala dati ng magulang ay binabantayan ni lalaki yung pinsan nyang babae, hayun paguwi after graduation may aginaldo na din sa tyan ni babae.

 

Oo siguro incest pa rin kung magpinsan ang mga dad nyo. Pero siguro may mas makakapagexplain pa nyan mula sa mga kasama natin dito.

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I don't know mate, personally that's creepy for me since close ako sa first and second cousins ko. I'm not judging you though don't get me wrong. Medyo gray area na 'yung second cousin since some people do marry their second cousins although sa case mo, I doubt na you would want that. Init lang ng katawan I guess. It might not be sex in your book but she did put your junk in her mouth so that's something. Siguro if it's really just one time forget about it na lang and hey, it's not like your cousin's the only fish in the sea. Iwas na lang siguro din next time from compromising position if it really bothers you since sa malamang sa malamang magkikita't magkikita kayo sa mga family gatherings and that would really be awkward.

 

Hindi sumagi sa isip ko 'to so interested din akong marinig 'yung opinion ng iba rito pero thanks for sharing mate, sana maraming maki-join in.

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Thanks bro @in the end and bro Juan... Actually diko siya alam pano approach pero she is texting me right now. Ayaw ko na pursue kung ano man yun and alam ko naman na wala naman patutunguhan.. It's just that nawalan ako ng respeto sakanya wala lang and to all others natakot ako kasi may mga ganyan Pala talaga na babae na kahit may bf or asawa na... Papatos padn.. Well in my case sabi niyo nga second cousin is still a relative whether sa legal or non legal perspective eh yun.. In this case siya ang nag start ng nangyari kagabi.. So matagal na siya may init sa akin or dahil badtrip lang siya.. And one more thing ang labo niya the fact na nag oral siya sa akin e diba sex nadin yun. Weird niya.. Di ako badtrp dahil Hindi kami nag sex pero badtrip ako sa fact na anong difference ng walang Intercourse sa swallow.. Excuse me for the word pero tingin ko yung pinsan ko natoh is lost Lalo na sa morality niya. Pati ako nabiktima niya sa kalokohan niya... Kaya dito talaga ako naniniwala na wala tayo kasalanan mga lalake eh... Ang babae talaga tukso... Again thanks mga bros.. I know personal na ito pero im really bothered.. Thanks again.

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Hmmm, parang lumalabas ay booty call ka. Pwedeng tama ka na posibleng matagal na syang may init sa iyo, at nung magka-chance sya to score sa iyo (kung talagang hindi na sya masaya sa bf nya), ay tinesting ka. Posibleng kaya walang intercourse ay morality wise nasa isip nya. Tipsy na ba sya during that time?

 

Kung pinapadalhan ka ng message, saka mo lang malalaman kung nagsisisi ba sya sa nangyari o hindi once na nakipag usap ka. Sooner or later, haharapin nyo pareho yan. Either tawanan nyo lang at isipin na panaginip lang yun or magkaron ng repeat encounter.

 

Good luck bro.

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@juan: bro thanks sa advice.. Though settled na nga na pinsan talaga kami.. Siguro maganda nalang talaga na wala nangyari sex. Pero still oral is sex diba? Kaya kung ano man yun morality.. I think same lang diba? Oh well anyway it has been done. Siguro try ko nalang deal ito.. As if wala nangyari.. Ang Hirap lang kasi is kamag anak.. Unlike sa strangers okay lang na wala pakelaman after na may incident sainyo.

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No Bro, it's not an incest because incest only implies to haveing relationship between you and your first degree relatives..

Ex. Cousin from your own mother's/father's siblings. Your own siblings, parents, and your child :)

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JoaquinV:So that means it is not immoral? That is not consider as incestuous? By law I know it is not... But moral perspective.? Not anymore? Thanks bro for sharing your insight about the matter.

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Hmmm sa Japan kasi as far as I know you can marry your cousin (kahit 1st), in the Filipino culture, well we did have our hero Dr. Rizal who fell inlove with his cousin. Personally I think it is incest if its your 1st cousin, mother or sister, but if it's on the second branch well I don't really know if it's still considered incest or not.  Mahirap tong topic na to bro, pero tingin ko mas okay na lang na di maulit yan hehe :D opinion lang po :)

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Patrick, alam mo yan under the law, hindi incestuous yung relationship hahaha! pero the fact that you are doubting means there is part of you na you know it's wrong. because kahit na under the law, marriage between second cousins are allowed. However, under our customs and traditions, they are still family; and relationship between second cousins would create a very awkward situation. pigilan mo yung urge if you can. but if you can't, keep it strictly private and highly confidential.

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JoaquinV:So that means it is not immoral? That is not consider as incestuous? By law I know it is not... But moral perspective.? Not anymore? Thanks bro for sharing your insight about the matter.

Not immoral for me, kase if come to think of it, almost all monarchs (kingsand Queens) are paired to their own relatives (cousins in 1St degree) to maintain thier supremacy and power. Pero madaming hypocrisy kase ee. Hypocrites are everywhere. Wala sa law naten na bawal yan it's only because we are Christians or most of us rather, and we do believe na sacred ang family code kaya tinetreassure natin ang bond. Don't worry Bro. Okay lang yan. Basta ang mahalaga kung anu ang ikasasaya mo dunka wag ka magpaapekto sa iba :) kudos my friend

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But that's a couple of centuries ago mate where marrying relatives are more of a political move than anything else. It's keeping the power within their own bloodline (Guess how that turned out for the most part). Anyway, I doubt ser Patrick is trying to propagate his seed for the good of the realm. I'd like to believe we as a society have moved past matching our 12-year-old daughters (age of consent during the medieval times and I'm using consent loosely since we can argue the girls didn't really had much choice on the matter) to marry our 35-year-old cousin so we can consolidate our power under one banner. It may not be illegal but as a social being laws aren't the only thing binding us to society - you won't be imprisoned for disrespecting your elders but don't expect that you'll be popular in the next family reunion.

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@boneo : bro yun nga ayaw ko na maulit pero she keeps texting me f@#*! talaga may topak yata sa ulo babae natoh. Tnx bro

@soundnin714 : oo nga bro legally alam ko okay pero bro yun nga morally I'm bothered parin Lalo na I know fiancé niya na yun... Tapos she keeps on texting me.. Morally I'm against sa nagawa ko the other night.. Pero naiinis din ako sa sarili ko na dahil sa ipit ako sa situation eh pumayag ako sa checkin part well umandar na siguro libido ko nun Hindi na umiral prinsipyo ko. I think she's so messed up may topak na. A feel so abused.. Tnx bro

@JoaquinV : I get you bro.. Hehe sumagi din sa utak ko na malayo na kami magkamaganak pero sa reunion lage siya andun.. Sobrang close kasi dad niya at dad ko... Kapag nalaman sa amin ito magkakagulo.... Oo nga sa France alam ko relatives talaga ang nilalahian hehe kaya dun na papasok yung custom vs morality. Yung custom medyo it can go beyond the limits of morality Lalo na kapag accepted yun.. Pero in our case sa generation at sa custom natin or should I say sa culture natin Pinoys it is a mortal sin kapag pumatol ka sa relatives of any degree... Tnx man for the share.

@this is the end: siguro bro I'm more inclined to your opinion kaya siguro bothered ako kasi yung cousin ko just gave me a good suck... So weird I feel guilty... And at the same time naasar bakit nagawa niya yun. Lalo na aggravate nung ayaw niya makipag sex that night.. Parang gusto ko mag explode.. Hindi naman ako na culture shock pero damn it iba yun kasi nararamdaman ko ngayon sakanya... Tnx bro for your share of thoughts.

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Dude okay lang 'yun. There are far more worse things people are doing right now. At the very least both of you are consenting adults. Bagabag lang talaga ng konsensiya.  It happened, learn from it and move on na lang din. I don't know what to say about her texting you still, talk to her about how you felt about the whole thing? Maybe she should stop texting you kasi one thing pala na we overlook, what if malaman nung Jeff 'yung nangyari?

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@this is the end: yung nga din isa pa sa worries ko... Baka malaman ng lahat isang malaking kahihiyan.. Yes bro I will take your advice.. Siguro iparamdam ko sakanya na bitter ako about sa nangyari... Malapit na pa naman ang exam ko.. Ayaw ko yung may worries ako at the back of my head.. Hindi ako Maka focus.

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@this is the end: dark souls 3 count down ba? Hehe for sure another epic release knowing that it is a product of Bandai Namco

@gorytonio: haha Ikaw ang Idol ko brod

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Ay meron pla neto dito, kasi ako 1st cousin ko tlga sya and we did it. Mga ilang ulit din. Nung college pa ako. Close kami, nag simula un reunion, then nasa cr ako para umihi then hndi ko pla na lock ung cr, pumasok sya and syempre that time walang malisya, akala ko aalis sya kasi alam nyang may tao then sumilip sya. Dun ako nagulat. To cit the story short nag ka txt kami then gusto nya tlga so c.i sa cubao then ayun napadalas.. tumigil lang nung nag ka bf sya. Alam kong mali pero marupok ako pag napapadalan ng nudes

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